Updated: Jan 29
Empowering Independent Parents: Relieving Legal Representation Disparity with a Hero's Touch
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MISSOURICASE.NET - A private parents group known as CLU (Clean Law Union) selected a network of Missouri family court cases to help fill the lack of representation with social justice efforts.
A staggering 5,500 independent parents, with children involved, in just the state of Missouri alone, were forced to file for dissolution of marriage in the first quarter of 2021. That's a heart-wrenching 22,000 people each year. A devastating 80% of these individuals, a total of 17,700, are either completely unrepresented or inadequately represented as they navigate the labyrinthine complexities of paywalls, digital efilings, physical professional systems, virtual hearings, foreign language third party software support, Supreme Court rules, computer mandates, and internet mandates. It's no surprise that so many are experiencing immense pain and suffering.
The challenges of navigating complex systems such as enrolling in college, securing financial aid, adapting to virtual classrooms during the Covid-19 pandemic, and ultimately graduating, are significantly easier for those who are in the know. Those who have gone through the process before or have parents who have, or are even paid to assist others, have an unfair advantage. The same is true for those in the family law industry.
The reality is that success in these situations is often skewed towards those who can afford proper representation, whether it's through a costly degree or retaining an expert. Yet, what children and young families involved in divorce court battles or facing similar deployments to war need is not expensive displays of power, but rather compassionate and professional support.
Breaking barriers: the journey of independent parents in Missouri overcoming complexities in family law
While anyone who sets their mind to it has the potential to earn a college degree, the same cannot be said for those navigating the legal system, where only half of those who pursue a case are able to achieve their desired outcome in family court decisions. It's no surprise that many become discouraged and drop out.
So, what motivates and sustains those who persist despite these odds? That is the question.
Oh, dear Olivia Sanders, a precious girl from Central Illinois who relocated to the bustling city of St Louis to attend the esteemed Washington University. She found love, got married and settled into a life in Joplin, Missouri, surrounded by the comfort and security of home. And then, in an instant, her world was turned upside down when her husband filed for divorce. The trauma of this event was compounded by memories of her childhood struggle to love both her mother and father. Her heart must have been shattered into a million pieces.
Olivia faced numerous obstacles and failed to overcome them all. Despite this, she was determined to help others avoid the same struggles and losses she experienced. Driven by her experiences, she set out to use her knowledge to support others and ensure they had the resources and guidance they needed to succeed. Her drive to make a difference was rooted in her own struggles and the desire to create a better path for others.
Due to a lack of representation, Olivia lost her first hearing when her soon-to-be ex-husband filed an Order of Protection, forcing her to leave the home they shared. In the next hearing, she lost a debate over an emergency order denying her visitation rights to her 7-year-old son, Justin. Throughout the subsequent court proceedings and outside negotiations, she suffered significant financial losses, including her home and car, and was left responsible for 85% of their previous joint bills. To make matters worse, she was also grappling with paying off her student loans and had to take time off work to attend all the court hearings, putting her job at risk.
Comprehending the Inequities in Legal Representation
Here are some interesting facts on Disparities in Family Law Representation:
1. Dissolution of marriage cases with children: 80% in Missouri (See red dots).
2. One represented, one not represented: 2 times worse off in court and daily life accourding to Olivia.
Imagine a child like Justin who has been impacted by his parents' divorce and the subsequent representation disparities in court. For someone in his position, categorized as a 2, the experience is deeply affecting. They feel like they've been marginalized and their struggles are not taken seriously. The emotional toll is significant and they often feel like they are two times more affected than the other party in the court case.
This lack of representation and support is especially difficult in everyday life. They may face additional challenges in social situations, such as visiting with teachers or doctors, and they feel the weight of these experiences every day. The financial impact can also be devastating, affecting their work performance, future finances, and even their ability to support their children. These difficulties can compound, making it even harder for them to get back on their feet and succeed.
An example of how a child like Justin might feel if his parents fall into deeper categories is that he might feel like his parent who lacks representation is never heard or acknowledged by decision-makers in family law. This can lead to a sense of hopelessness and frustration, as their parent may feel like they are constantly fighting an uphill battle against a system that is not on their side.
For instance, imagine being a student at school and one group of children have a teacher and other students don't. Or imagine being involved in a conflict at school or online, and one side has a parent who is a martial arts expert backing them up, while the other side doesn't. The side without representation can experience immense pain and distress, even if they don't want to fight. They may feel like they are being constantly pushed away and never truly included in the decision-making process. They may feel like they are being punished for simply trying to advocate for themselves.
Ah, the cruel and unjust world of Monopoly. A rigged game of chance, where the rich get richer and the poor... well, they just get poorer. Sound familiar? It should, because it's not just a game, it's a reflection of reality. A psychology experiment at the University of California, Irvine, showed us just how unfair life can be, by using a Monopoly game to demonstrate the difference between the advantaged player and the disadvantaged "Player X."
Imagine being "Player X," starting off with less money, less property, and fewer rolls of the dice. It's like being dealt a losing hand from the get-go. The sad truth is, research shows that when one player starts with an advantage, they're less likely to play fairly or share equally. Just like in real life, the disadvantaged "Parent X" gets repeatedly pummeled, while the community looks the other way.
So there you have it, folks. A game that exposes the harsh realities of life, where the odds are stacked against some and in favor of others. The sad reality is, this is what disadvantaged parents have been silently experiencing for years.
3. Both unrepresented: negative impact on decision-makers.
4. Equal representation: best outcome (See one attourney for each Party).
Category 4 with equal representation means that both parents have access to their own legal representation during the divorce proceedings, resulting in a more fair and balanced outcome. This can potentially mean a better outcome for Justin, as both parents can present their cases and ensure that their rights and interests are protected. With equal representation, the chances of reaching a fair agreement on issues such as custody, visitation, and support may increase, leading to a better quality of life for Justin. It also helps ensure that both parents are held accountable for their actions and decisions and that the outcome of the proceedings are not influenced by any perceived advantages or disadvantages.
5. Overrepresentation of one party: negative effects on disadvantaged party (See one attourney for one side and two on the other).
6. One parent overly represented by two counselors, other unrepresented.
Category 6 would mean that one parent has two attorneys representing them in the case, while the other parent has no representation. This could result in an unequal distribution of resources, power, and influence in court proceedings and decision making. This unequal representation could result in unfavorable outcomes for the unrepresented parent and could also impact Justin and his blended family in the future. The represented parent may have an advantage in securing favorable outcomes for themselves, while the unrepresented parent may face obstacles in having their voices heard and their interests protected. This could result in an imbalanced and potentially harmful dynamic within Justin's blended family.
7. Different categories of representation disparity: from equal to uneven representation.
8. Guardian Ad Litem or Mediator involvement: varies from case to case.
9. Effects of final court order: can be unbearable with unequal representation.
The dire reality of the situation with three attorneys against one, or four against none, as seen in the case of Olivia and Justin, is a tragedy waiting to happen. The outcome of the final contract terms and court order will be unbearable, leaving a devastating and long-lasting impact on their lives.
10. The future of parents and children in their corresponding categories of representation disparities can have lasting effects on their lives. For example, in category 2 where one parent is represented while the other is not, they can experience a significant emotional and financial burden, affecting their daily life, relationships with their children, and future prospects. Similarly, in category 7 where one parent has psychological representation and the other does not, the results can be devastating, with a potential of long-lasting emotional and financial impacts. On the other hand, categories 4 and 8 where both parents have equal or adequate representation can result in a more favorable outcome and have a lesser impact on the lives of both parents and children. It's essential to understand the importance of representation and work towards ensuring equal representation for all parties involved in legal proceedings.
Olivia was in Catagory 8 and Justin in Catagory 10, representing the disparities in representation and support in the legal system. Due to a lack of representation and resources, Olivia struggled to protect her rights in the divorce proceedings and ended up losing a significant portion of her assets and financial stability. She also faced obstacles in her career as she had to take time off work to attend court hearings. Despite these challenges, Olivia remained determined to make a difference in others' lives and use her experiences to support those going through similar struggles.
Justin's challenges were even more severe, as he was just a 7-year-old child caught in the middle of his parents' divorce and navigating complex systems during the Covid-19 pandemic. He faced numerous obstacles, including enrolling in grade school and securing transportation, and ultimately dropped out and resorted to running the streets. The difficulties he faced highlight the impact of representation disparities and the challenges faced by children in these situations. These challenges are significantly harder for those who face disparities and may never be fully understood by those who have not experienced them.
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In Missouri, where Olivia and Justin live, it's estimated that 17,700 (or 1.5 million if extrapolated to the entire US) parents are struggling without proper representation in family court each year. Out of the state's population of 6.2 million, that's only 0.3% or 3 out of every 1,000 people. But for those who are already poor and underserved, the lack of access to a credible voice in court and government only exacerbates the problem. The legal system can feel like a never-ending adversarial battle, with psychological warfare at every turn. Unfortunately, these struggles are not acknowledged or addressed by conventional lawyers or law schools, leaving those affected feeling unheard and unsupported.
Olivia was heartbroken to learn that she was not alone in her struggle as an unrepresented, cancelled life. The statistics in Illinois reveal a consistent pattern of industrially disadvantaged individuals being shut out of the advertised "family" law court system. They are left to suffer with chronic hopelessness, walking in worn-out shoes just like so many others.
A heart-wrenching discovery was made in a 2020 study of Central Illinois counties from St. Claire to Christian, where it was found that a staggering 80% of innocent individuals were either unrepresented or poorly represented in court. Despite having their children, homes, finances, retirement accounts, pets, emotional health, social status, and more at stake, these people were left to navigate the court system alone.